Facebook is this weird time suck but it also gives you access to things you wouldn't normal see. Yesterday J's aunt posted a picture of his grandad from when he was in the navy. J's grandad wasn't much for talking or sharing and honestly there just aren't that many pictures of him and the ones there were he didn't display so this is the first time J had seen this picture. We scrutinised it for a bit trying to find the resemblance. Then I spent this evening checking over my kids to see if I could see him in them. Maybe a tiny bit but it seems like at least in their family grandmas genes were stronger.